Chore: Upgrade react-redux (#77296)

* try upgrading react-redux

* memoize getNavModel selector, don't return a new object in command palette selector

* use createSelector to memoize some alert manager selectors correctly

* memoize selectors correctly in appNotifications

* memoize some datasource selectors

* use fake timers to avoid the debounce causing flakiness

* remove duplicate import

* just use memoize-one

.github/renovate.json5

@@ -8,7 +8,6 @@
     "react-router-dom", // we should bump this together with history (see https://github.com/grafana/grafana/issues/76744)
     "monaco-editor", // due to us exposing this via @grafana/ui/CodeEditor's props bumping can break plugins
     "react-hook-form", // due to us exposing these hooks via @grafana/ui form components bumping can break plugins
-    "react-redux", // react-beautiful-dnd depends on react-redux 7.x, we need to update that one first
   ],
   "includePaths": ["package.json", "packages/**", "public/app/plugins/**"],
   "ignorePaths": ["emails/**", "plugins-bundled/**", "**/mocks/**", "packages/grafana-e2e/**"],