Chore: Disable cgo by default for local builds (#111807)

* disable cgo by default for local builds, also set cgo variable in either case

* actually do not set the default value

* disable cgo for darwin, display sqlite driver in logs

* fix linter warning, although I do not fully agree with it

pkg/util/sqlite/sqlite_cgo.go

@@ -35,12 +35,13 @@ func IsUniqueConstraintViolation(err error) bool {
 }
 
 func ErrorMessage(err error) string {
-	if err == nil {
-		return ""
-	}
 	var sqliteErr sqlite3.Error
 	if errors.As(err, &sqliteErr) {
 		return sqliteErr.Error()
 	}
 	return err.Error()
 }
+
+func DriverType() string {
+	return "mattn/go-sqlite3 (CGO enabled)"
+}