Resource server improvements and fixes (#90715)

* cleanup dependencies and improve list method
* Improve Resource Server API, remove unnecessary dependencies
* Reduce the API footprint of ResourceDBInterface and its implementation
* Improve LifecycleHooks to use context
* Improve testing
* reduce API size and improve code
* sqltemplate: add DialectForDriver func and improve naming
* improve lifecycle API
* many small fixes after adding more tests

pkg/services/store/entity/sqlstash/queries_test.go

@@ -392,7 +392,7 @@ func TestQueries(t *testing.T) {
 							expectedQuery := sqltemplate.FormatSQL(rawQuery)
 
 							for _, d := range ds {
-								t.Run(d.Name(), func(t *testing.T) {
+								t.Run(d.DialectName(), func(t *testing.T) {
 									// not parallel for the same reason
 
 									tc.Data.SetDialect(d)