Resource server improvements and fixes (#90715)

* cleanup dependencies and improve list method
* Improve Resource Server API, remove unnecessary dependencies
* Reduce the API footprint of ResourceDBInterface and its implementation
* Improve LifecycleHooks to use context
* Improve testing
* reduce API size and improve code
* sqltemplate: add DialectForDriver func and improve naming
* improve lifecycle API
* many small fixes after adding more tests

pkg/storage/unified/sql/sqltemplate/dialect_test.go

@@ -178,7 +178,7 @@ func TestName_Name(t *testing.T) {
 
 	const v = "some dialect name"
 	n := name(v)
-	if n.Name() != v {
-		t.Fatalf("unexpected dialect name %q", n.Name())
+	if n.DialectName() != v {
+		t.Fatalf("unexpected dialect name %q", n.DialectName())
 	}
 }