Zanzana: Initial work to run openFGA as embedded or standalone service (#89211)

* Zanana: Initial work to run zanana as ebeddedn or standalone

* Add addr settings for when remote client is used.

* sync dependencies

* Lock mysql driver version
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Co-authored-by: Dan Cech <dcech@grafana.com>

pkg/modules/dependencies.go

@@ -7,12 +7,14 @@ const (
 	Core                  string = "core"
 	GrafanaAPIServer      string = "grafana-apiserver"
 	StorageServer         string = "storage-server"
+	ZanzanaServer         string = "zanzana-server"
 	InstrumentationServer string = "instrumentation-server"
 )
 
 var dependencyMap = map[string][]string{
 	GrafanaAPIServer: {InstrumentationServer},
 	StorageServer:    {InstrumentationServer},
+	ZanzanaServer:    {InstrumentationServer},
 	Core:             {},
 	All:              {Core},
 }