replace dep with go modules (#16017)

- guide shamelessly stolen from prometheus/prometheus
- updates local interface of oauth exchange
- updates local impl of hclogger
- bump jaeger client version

closes #16088

vendor/github.com/mattn/go-sqlite3/sqlite3_libsqlite3.go

@@ -2,6 +2,7 @@
 //
 // Use of this source code is governed by an MIT-style
 // license that can be found in the LICENSE file.
+
 // +build libsqlite3
 
 package sqlite3
@@ -10,6 +11,7 @@ package sqlite3
 #cgo CFLAGS: -DUSE_LIBSQLITE3
 #cgo linux LDFLAGS: -lsqlite3
 #cgo darwin LDFLAGS: -L/usr/local/opt/sqlite/lib -lsqlite3
+#cgo openbsd LDFLAGS: -lsqlite3
 #cgo solaris LDFLAGS: -lsqlite3
 */
 import "C"