replace dep with go modules (#16017)

- guide shamelessly stolen from prometheus/prometheus
- updates local interface of oauth exchange
- updates local impl of hclogger
- bump jaeger client version

closes #16088

vendor/github.com/mattn/go-sqlite3/sqlite3_trace.go

@@ -2,7 +2,8 @@
 //
 // Use of this source code is governed by an MIT-style
 // license that can be found in the LICENSE file.
-// +build trace
+
+// +build sqlite_trace trace
 
 package sqlite3