Chore: Make cgo optional (for sqlite) (#108756)

* make cgo optional for sqlite

* update go.mod; check error code differently

* reduce api surface even more

* move test errors into sqlite package

* add a comment

pkg/services/sqlstore/database_wrapper.go

@@ -10,9 +10,9 @@ import (
 
 	"github.com/gchaincl/sqlhooks"
 	"github.com/go-sql-driver/mysql"
+	"github.com/grafana/grafana/pkg/util/sqlite"
 	"github.com/grafana/grafana/pkg/util/xorm/core"
 	"github.com/lib/pq"
-	"github.com/mattn/go-sqlite3"
 	"github.com/prometheus/client_golang/prometheus"
 	"go.opentelemetry.io/otel/attribute"
 	"go.opentelemetry.io/otel/trace"
@@ -42,7 +42,7 @@ func init() {
 // database queries. It also registers the metrics.
 func WrapDatabaseDriverWithHooks(dbType string, tracer tracing.Tracer) string {
 	drivers := map[string]driver.Driver{
-		migrator.SQLite:   &sqlite3.SQLiteDriver{},
+		migrator.SQLite:   &sqlite.Driver{},
 		migrator.MySQL:    &mysql.MySQLDriver{},
 		migrator.Postgres: &pq.Driver{},
 	}