Replace usage of react-test-renderer and @testing-library/react-hooks (#98152)

* Update dependency @types/react-test-renderer to v19

* replace usage of react-test-renderer

* use renderHook from @testing-library/react in most tests

* update tests to work without @testing-library/react-hooks

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Co-authored-by: renovate[bot] <29139614+renovate[bot]@users.noreply.github.com>
Co-authored-by: Ashley Harrison <ashley.harrison@grafana.com>

packages/grafana-sql/package.json

@@ -38,7 +38,6 @@
     "@testing-library/dom": "10.4.0",
     "@testing-library/jest-dom": "^6.1.2",
     "@testing-library/react": "16.1.0",
-    "@testing-library/react-hooks": "^8.0.1",
     "@testing-library/user-event": "14.5.2",
     "@types/jest": "^29.5.4",
     "@types/lodash": "4.17.13",