Alerting: fix ngalert alertmanager SQL Syntax Errors (#40827) (#40868)

* test kvstore in intregration tests with different databases

* escape 'key' in delete query

* export quote and use it in kvstore

(cherry picked from commit d1aefa1792)

Co-authored-by: Jean-Philippe Quéméner <JohnnyQQQQ@users.noreply.github.com>

pkg/services/sqlstore/sqlstore.go

@@ -157,6 +157,11 @@ func (ss *SQLStore) Reset() error {
 	return ss.ensureMainOrgAndAdminUser()
 }
 
+// Quote quotes the value in the used SQL dialect
+func (ss *SQLStore) Quote(value string) string {
+	return ss.engine.Quote(value)
+}
+
 func (ss *SQLStore) ensureMainOrgAndAdminUser() error {
 	ctx := context.Background()
 	err := ss.WithTransactionalDbSession(ctx, func(sess *DBSession) error {