SQL Expressions: Make SQL Expressions work with Alerting (#101820)

Initial support for alerting with SQL expressions

- When `format` is set to `alerting`, SQL expressions output in a format suitable for alerting evaluation.
- Outstanding TODOs:
  - Deduplicate output rows
  - Add more tests
  - Fix broken alerting UI rendering (likely due to shape change to undocumented full-long format)
- Basic usage:
  - SQL must return one numeric column and one or more string columns.
  - Each row may become an alert.
  - The alert fires if the numeric value is non-zero.
  - String columns are treated as labels.

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Co-authored-by: Konrad Lalik <konradlalik@gmail.com>
Co-authored-by: Tom Ratcliffe <tom.ratcliffe@grafana.com>
Co-authored-by: Sam Jewell <sam.jewell@grafana.com>

pkg/expr/query.go

@@ -77,6 +77,7 @@ type ClassicQuery struct {
 // SQLQuery requires the sqlExpression feature flag
 type SQLExpression struct {
 	Expression string `json:"expression" jsonschema:"minLength=1,example=SELECT * FROM A LIMIT 1"`
+	Format     string `json:"format"`
 }
 
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